Lingam Massage - Divine Tantric Massage For Him
For both partners, Lingam massage is a very rewarding and enjoyable
experience.
It invokes feelings of new pleasures, trust, communication,
awakening the flame of love and pure enjoyment.
This Tantric Massage will definitely spice up your relationship and
bring both partners closer together in completely new, unforgettable way.
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Men experience great lust, they refine and refresh sexual energy.
Actually at the end of The Lingam massage the sexual energy is heated in
lingam and rises along the spine where it "implode" into the entire body.
Men experience new levels of spiritual lustfulness. Additionally, Tantric Massage harmonizes and strengthens body's energy centers,
which
leave the entire body relaxed and stronger.
Extremely tense and deeply relaxed at the same time, whole body orgasms
can be achieved.
Lingam massage and Tantric Sex in the past:
Lingam, the Sanskrit word for the
male genital organ also known as
The
Wand of Light, is viewed as a channel for creative energy, pleasure and an
essential part of sacred sexuality.
In Eastern cultures, the Lingam is
honored, vital organ and worshiped accordingly.
In the past, genital massage was an essential part in maintaining
vitality and overall health. Reflexology points on genitals are connected to
and corresponds to important organs such as lungs, heart, spleen and liver.
Good genital or Lingam massage has many health benefits and healing effects.
In Eastern Cultures, the male is also encouraged to learn about his body
and the importance of controlling ejaculation.
While focusing on proper slow
breathing and squeezing of the PC muscle, man can prolong the ejaculation
and orgasm. He can then experience Divine union with himself, his partner
and the Universe.
How to prepare for Lingam massage?
For a woman, witnessing her man to surrender to the bliss of her
touch is truly a joyous and exciting experience.
Create an intimate, warm atmosphere. Use candles, soft music,
comfortable blankets and pillows.
For beginners, it's highly recommended to
watch
Lingam Massage Video.
It makes things easy to understand and follow so
you can be more confident.
Your Sex God can take a relaxing shower or bath. Remind him to breathe
deeply, as it will get him more into your feelings and erase out unwanted
mental thoughts of the day.
He should go to the bathroom before the massage, as his bowels and
bladder should be empty.
And now you are ready to make your man completely relaxed and enter the
sacred tantric space where there are no goals.
Remember: Your man should be experiencing and enjoying the sexual touch
without any need to give back or perform in any particular way.
Beginning of the Lingam Massage :
You can hug or hold your Sex God or gaze into each other's eyes until
you let of outside thoughts and connect with each other.
Have him lie on his back and place pillows under his head, so he can see
what you are doing. Put a pillow (covered with a towel) under his hips and
spread his legs with his knees bent.
His Lingam needs to be completely
exposed. Make sure his knees are comfortably supported with soft pillows as
well.
Sit comfortably between his legs. Before you touch his Lingam, begin
with relaxed, slow breathing and start massaging his legs, thighs, chest,
nipples...to allow him to get ready for the Lingam massage.
Pour a small quantity of good-quality oil on the shaft and testicles
(organic grape seed oil from your local health food store is a great
choice).
Start gently massaging the testicles, not applying too much
pressure to this highly sensitive area. Slowly move up to the area of the
pubic bone above the Lingam and massage it gently. Move back down and
massage the area between his testicles and anus called the perineum.
Massage the shaft of the Lignam :
You can vary the speed and pressure. Start by very simple moves - gently
grasp the base of the Lingam with your right hand and pull UP and slide off.
Repeat with your left hand. Take your time....
Later, change direction and
grasp the Lingam at the top. Slide DOWN and move hand away. Repeat same with
the other hand as well.
Avoid falling into a habit of giving him a "hand job". Instead massage
him sensually, slowly and with arousal.
Enjoy and feel the energy flowing
between his lingam and your hands.
Massage the head of the Lingam :
Pay special attention to the head as it's very sensitive. Massage all
around the head moving down onto the shaft in circular motion.
His Lingam
may move between hard and soft. This is highly desirable experience in Tantra as softness and hardness are two ends of the pleasure possibilities.
If you see or he'll tell you that he is getting close to the
ejaculation, take your hands away immediately and encourage him to take
deep, slow breaths. Once the Lingam softens a little bit you can continue
your massage.
Keep bringing him close to ejaculation and then back off. This
is
the best way to delay ejaculation and learn to control it.
Deep breathing is a single most important thing that
will lower the urge
to ejaculate.
With this pleasurable practice,
man can achieve multi-orgasms without
ejaculating. Men can learn to separate orgasm and ejaculation, which result
in greatly improved sex life.
How to find and massage the Sacred Spot.
While massaging his Lingam you can search for his
Sacred Spot.
Move your
hand midway between his testicles and anus and try to find a small
indentation about the size of a pea. Be careful and slow in here. At first,
he may feel uncomfortable pressure there.
However, if you will continue to
massage and soften this area, it will help him
to increase the intensity of
his orgasms and have
better ejaculatory control in the future.
He might prefer stimulation of his Lingam while getting the Sacred Spot
massage, which is perfectly fine. The key is to be slow and gentle.
Sometimes man can have strong emotions and feelings come up during the
Sacred Spot massage. He might cry, get sad, remember a traumatic past, etc.
Let him feel these emotions, encourage him to cry or moan, if he wants. It's
your time to be his healer and the best listener.
Keep bringing him close to ejaculation and then backing off. For men
this is the best way to master how to delay ejaculation. They need to feel
and learn to control coming closer and then backing off the urge to
ejaculate.
When he nears to ejaculation you can try to push on the Sacred Spot. In
Taoism, it's called
The Million Dollar Point, and pressure, here will
increase the intensity of his orgasm.
You should encourage him to breathe
deeply during his orgasm.
If you can make him to hold back his ejaculation at least SIX Times, it
will charge his sexual batteries up with tremendous energy. Orgasm afterword
will simply blow his mind.
Ending the Lingam Massage
Slowly cover him and let him drift off quietly. You can then leave the
room or snuggle into your man, so he can feel your body on his. Just relax,
keep breathing and enjoying.
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